Friday, June 25, 2010

Bring on the Rain!

I am ready, my Mother in Law gave our family poncho's for Father's Day. That must of meant I was ready for this weeks events.

I might need these:



Underneath the picture it said "Make a rainy day bright."




My husband is having kidney problems he came home on Wednesday because he could not stop vomiting. He had to be very sick, Sam will work through anything.

He came in the house and said "You have to get me into the Doctor's something is really wrong with me."

I called and got him an appointment and he was showering. Stockton came and asked me "Can I go ride my bike?" I told him "5 minutes is all you have."

Well in two minutes I heard a scream from outside that made my stomach turn, and I met him in the laundry room with a bloody face. I mean bloody, he had torn the right side of his face off, and cut an artery in his face. He was coming down our hill on a Mtn Bike and looked down for a brief second and ran into the back of a parked Mini Van and went through the back windshield. THE KID WALKED HIMSELF HOME!! AND HE DID NOT CRY ONCE!! His helmet saved his eye and probably his life.

He is home recovering and has over 2 thousand stitches in his face. We are hoping it will take. He will follow up with probably 2 more surgeries after this.
He is very heartbroken about his face and doesn't want a lot of people to see him, especially the little girls, he thinks he looks like a monster and it will scare them. I still think he is beautiful and I look at him and think of all the miracles that are staring back at me for example: Why, or how does he have an eye? He is so lucky to not have cut and artery or anything else on his neck. Miracles I look and that is all I see, we are truly blessed. I am so thankful that God's hand is written all over his face.

I am very heartbroken for him and love him so much, and I am hoping that he recovers fast. We are in for a indoor summer only, he is not allowed to be in the sun due to scaring, so if you feel like sitting this is the house to visit.

As for Sam.....Well he isn't doing anything but getting his boy better right now and we have taken him off all his meds and he seems to kind of be feeling better but for now we will worry about it next week.

SO all I have to say is, I am flooded standing here in our rain, please send life preserver.

One more thing -- When I see a child without a helmet on, I will stop and take away their bike...just sayin'.

8 comments:

  1. You poor lady - your poor family. I can't believe all that is going on in your life. I will send many extra prayers your way - and of course, you are always in my thoughts. I love you and know you will come through these trials stronger than ever, like you always do. You are awesome and you have an amazing family! Love You!

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  2. My heart just sank at the thought of another trial for you and your family. Your family is so strong through all of this...we love your family and want you to know we are here for you through all of this. We are sending extra prayers your way. Let us know if we can help in anyway!

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  3. I'm so sorry! One of Rob's cousin's kids just had a similar accident. The helmet saved her too. I'm so glad you guys are such good parents! As always, we will keep you in our prayers.

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  4. Your family is in our prayers! Speedy recovery to Stockton and Sam!

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  5. Brandi, seriously...why do you have so many trials? I know I sound so unfaithful, but it just doesn't seem fair. Yet I know with every tragedy is one or more miracles. I was even going to ask you for help this week, and now I am glad I didn't. You had a lot more going on than me, but with that being said I know you still would have been there to help. You guys are in my prayers. I hope Sam's kidneys will get better. I hope Stockton can heal. Do you use essential oils? I guess since your a massage therapist I figure you do? I use Lavender for scar tissue and helichrysum for scarring. Let me know if you want to try them, I would be more than happy to get you some. The past few days I have been smelling one called trauma life and it makes me feel so much better. Let me know what I can do for you. xoxoxo

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  6. Brandi so sorry to hear about Stockton ,I'll be praying that he heals guickly. Aunty Doris

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  7. When it rains, it pours! I have been checking in on your blog every now and then and we've been praying for you. Even my kids have remembered your family in our prayers every day. You are a very strong woman!

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  8. Good grief, it just never ends. Stockton is such a cute boy and nothing could ever change that. We think about you a lot, even up here in the north. After I read your blog I went to tell Malcolm about how unfair life is and he just calmly said "Ericka, obviously she has the faith and strength to go through it." It never feels that simple to me, even though I know in my heart that it's true. You amaze all of us with your strength and faith and optimism.

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